The Sacrament of Reconciliation is an experience of God's forgiving love. It not only absolves us from past failures — more importantly, it gives God an opportunity to gift us with grace to make better choices in the future. It is also a chance to talk over a particular worry with a priest, in absolute confidentiality.
When and where
Confession is available at all four of our churches. At St. James, come on Saturday from 9:30 to 10:30 AM or from 4:00 to 4:45 PM. At Our Lady of the Valley, head to the confessional after the 10:30 AM Sunday Mass. At Sacred Heart and St. Benedict's, speak with the priest before Mass to arrange a time. You can also call the parish office for an appointment.
A communal Parish Reconciliation Service is celebrated each Advent and Lent.
Preparing
Many people find it helpful to prepare with an examination of conscience — a short, prayerful review of life. Free guides for adults and teens are available from the Fathers of Mercy, the National Catholic Register, the Archdiocese of Toronto (in many languages), and the USCCB. And if you have been away a long time: welcome back. There is no better place to start again.