Welcome.
Whether this is your first time in a Catholic church or your first time back in years, you are welcome here. There is nothing to prepare and no one checking at the door. Just come.
“Come and see.” John 1:39
Where to begin
Come to Mass. Say hello when you’re ready. Take a next step if you want one — at whatever pace suits you. Or explore quietly on your own first.
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Come to Mass
Pick any of our four churches and any weekend Mass. Sit wherever you like, follow along as best you can, and stay for a moment afterwards if you wish.
- Saturday
- 5:00 PM at St. James (Vigil Mass) · 5:30 PM at Sacred Heart
- Sunday
- 8:30 AM at St. James · 9:30 AM at Sacred Heart · 10:30 AM at Our Lady of the Valley · 1:00 PM at St. Benedict's · 7:00 PM at St. James
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Say hello
Introduce yourself to the priest at the door after Mass, or reach the parish office any time. We would be glad to know your name, answer a question, or simply welcome you.
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Take a next step
If you find yourself wanting more — questions about God, about the Church, about becoming Catholic — there is a patient, unhurried path for that, and you can walk it with no obligation.
Becoming Catholic
Your first Mass, honestly
Walking into a church for the first time — or the first time in years — takes more courage than anyone admits. Here is exactly what will happen, so none of it surprises you.
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Arrive a few minutes early
Come in the main doors. Someone may smile and hand you a hymn book; that is the extent of the welcome committee. Sit anywhere you like — there are no reserved seats and no good or bad rows.
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Follow the people around you
The congregation stands, sits, and kneels at set moments. Nobody expects you to know when — just follow your neighbours, or simply stay seated. Both are completely fine.
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The collection is not for you
Partway through, a basket comes around. Guests are not expected to give anything. Let it pass with a clear conscience.
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When Communion comes
Catholics go forward to receive the Eucharist. If you are not Catholic, you are warmly invited to remain in your seat — many people do — or to come forward with your arms crossed over your chest to receive a blessing instead.
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Afterwards, you decide
Mass ends in about an hour. You can slip out quietly — truly, no one will stop you — or say hello to the priest at the door. Whatever you choose, you were not singled out, asked to stand, or asked for anything.
Questions people actually ask
- Do I have to be Catholic to come to Mass?
- No. Anyone may come to any Mass, every week, for as long as they like. Many people attend for months while they think things through.
- What should I wear?
- Come as you are. You will see everything from Sunday best to work clothes. Nobody is checking.
- Can I bring my children?
- Please do. Children belong at Mass, and the sound of a restless child does not bother us — it means the parish has a future.
- I have been away for decades. Is it awkward to come back?
- There is no waiting period, no paperwork, and no explaining required. Walk in, sit down, and you are home. If something weighs on you, confession is quiet, confidential, and gentler than you remember.
- I am divorced. Am I welcome?
- Yes — fully. Divorce by itself changes nothing about your place at Mass. If your situation feels complicated, a priest will gladly talk it through with you privately, without judgment.
- What if I do not believe yet?
- Doubt is not a barrier to the building. Come, sit, listen, and take whatever time you need. Faith has never been rushed well.
Older than memory, new every Sunday
The Mass you would walk into this Sunday is not a modern invention or a local custom. Around the year 155, a man named Justin described to the Roman emperor what Christians did when they gathered:
“On the day called Sunday, all who live in cities or in the country gather together to one place, and the memoirs of the apostles or the writings of the prophets are read… Then bread and wine are brought, and the one presiding offers prayers and thanksgivings, and the people assent, saying Amen.”
St. Justin Martyr, First Apology — written c. 155 AD
That is, recognizably, next Sunday at 8:30. Readings, prayers, bread and wine, Amen. An unbroken line runs from that room in Rome through nineteen centuries to a stone church on East Hill — and it has space in it for you. You would not be joining something new. You would be stepping into something that has carried millions of ordinary lives, and knows how to carry yours.
Whichever this is, start here
- I’m curious about faith Come to a Mass and see. No commitment, no follow-up calls.
- I was raised Catholic and drifted The way back is shorter than you think.
- I want to become Catholic A patient, unhurried path called OCIA — questions welcome at every step.
- I’d rather explore quietly on my own The whole story in five minutes, and trusted things to read, watch, and listen to — private and free.
- I’m Catholic and new to town Welcome home — register with a parish in two minutes.
Or skip all of it and just talk to a person: phone the parish office — a real human answers, and “I don’t know where to start” is a fine opening line.
Prefer to write? Start here.
Two minutes, no commitment. One real person at the parish office reads this and replies — usually within a couple of days. You will not be added to a list, and nobody will pressure you.
Prefer to write? Start here.
Two minutes, no commitment. The right person at the parish will read it and reply. You will not be pressured.
Handled by Welcome team
Guides for your first visits
- What to Expect at Mass Never been to Mass, or not in a long time? Here is what will happen, and what you need to know. The short version: just come.
- Returning to the Church The Church wants you back, and we are here to help you on your journey home.
- Register with the Parish Been worshipping with us for a while? Make it official — registering helps us welcome you properly and serve your family well.
If you have been away
There is no waiting period, no paperwork, and no explaining required to walk back through the door. The Church wants you home.
Returning to the ChurchResources for getting started
A few trustworthy places to read, listen, pray, and keep exploring at your own pace.
- HallowHallow
Guided Catholic prayer, meditations, music, and daily routines.
- FormedFormed
Catholic videos, studies, films, and formation resources for households and small groups.
- Catholic AnswersCatholic Answers
Clear explanations of Catholic teaching, apologetics, and common questions.
- Word on FireWord on Fire
Catholic articles, videos, and formation material.
- AscensionAscension
Catholic Bible studies, podcasts, and catechetical resources.
- Dynamic CatholicDynamic Catholic
Practical Catholic formation resources for prayer, habits, and parish life.